Follow the Leader!

Play an old favorite—“Follow the Leader.” Choose one person to be the leader and do what he or she does as the rest of the family follows along behind (hop, put your hands on your head, flap your arms, sing, etc). Take turns being the leader.

Ask:
Which did you like best—being the leader or a follower?
When you were the leader, what did you need to remember? (To do things that others could do, not to leave the others behind, to think about others, etc)
Why is it important for a leader to think about others? (So the others will not get discouraged and quit following)

God gave some guidelines for leaders in 1 Peter 5:1-9 (willing, be an example, humble, prayerful, self-controlled). Remind your kids that they can be a good leader among their friends by knowing the right thing to do and having the courage to do it.

A Leader Gives & Says Thanks!

Make a “goody basket” filled with fun treats for a church leader (pastor, Sunday School teacher, deacon, youth leader). Include a note of thanks and mention specific qualities that you appreciate. Take the whole family to deliver it.

For a different twist, place the basket on the porch, ring the door bell and hide. Remain anonymous.

One of the best ways to develop leadership in your kids is to give them a small assignment and let them gather others to help. Pick one to be in charge and let them plan a simple party, have a lemonade stand, or even "decorate" for dinner. Help the “leader” to make a list of the things that need to be done and to practice asking others to help without being too bossy. Help the others to learn to submit to a leader with a good attitude.